Getting the Most Out of Your Library

Some of us have it good, some of us not so much, but all of us can agree that a library is an indispensable tool to a community and I stand by that statement even facing the future of digital books.  The right kind of driven and supported library can be more than just place to borrow a book it can be the center of great community life, especially for those of us with young children.

Like anything in life we can be disappointed.  Maybe you hate to see a huge DVD collections of popular movies rather than non-fiction or documentaries, or the latest soft-core “paranormal romance” geared towards adolescents pushing out the classics or maybe your a mother of young children who want a better selection of materials than “Dora” and “Spongebob” or a deal with meager selection of adult fiction or non-fiction.  It can get frustrating when we feel like our needs aren’t being met, but there are ways to get the most out of your community Library.

These are a few suggestions of my own; any librarians out there please pipe in if you agree or disagree!

  • Volunteer – This is one of the best ones I can offer, particularly for those of us with children.  Shelving books for an hour or two a week or even a month frees up time for your Librarian to focus on things like book orders and planning activities.  It also helps the Library staff become more knowledgeable about the people they’re catering to and is an easy way to gain feedback, criticism and praise.  
  • Make Friends – Not all of us have the time to volunteer, but start getting to know the staff particularly if you’re a regular and if they know your name (or your kids) you should know theirs.  Talk to your Librarians!  
  • Share Your Contacts – Does your family know traditional Chinese Dances, or play a the bagpipes; is your office mate a member of the local orchestra ; does your retired father have a selection of vintage trains he’d love to show off?  Do you know someone who was in WWII or met the president or climbed Mt. Everest.  Even if your Librarian politely declines your offer it’s worth a shot to say “Hey, I know someone who…”  
  • Use InterLibrary Loan – InterLibrary Loan is an amazing program that most local libraries can participate in.  It’s a way for them to give their communities the books they want with out the price tag and a way for you to subtly let them know what the community wants to read.  I have more than a couple ILL books I’ve requested show up as a “new purchase” the day I went to collect them. 
  • Participate – Go to the book clubs and children’s nights.  Even if they don’t sound too interesting to begin with bring a friend and go out for coffee later; again, the only way for the Library to met the needs of it’s community is to know the needs of it’s community.  If the only folks participating in Book club are the little old bluehairs who think enjoy whodunnit’s about a very curious cat, then that’s all you’re going to get!  
  • Make Your Voice Known – Let me first state that this gives no one the right to get nasty; do the following with courtesy and respect.  If there’s an issue you just can’t solve on your own make your voice known.  There are no guarantees what can come of it, but a nicely worded letter or email to the Director could help change things for the better and you don’t know until you try.  On the flip side, they need to know what you like just as much as what you didn’t!
  • Use More Than One Library – If your needs still aren’t being met at your Local look to near by communities.  If you live in a city with a suburb or vice versa there will often be ways you can get a limited Library Card to a different library.  
  • Ask For The Right Kind of Help– A librarians brain isn’t hard wired with the card catalog, take a moment to check on the computer to find out ahead of time if something is in or where it should be located. In fact, many larger libraries have their catalogs online so you can search from home during nap time or bed time.  Our Local even has a reserve system that allows us to put 5 books on hold from our home computers, and then emails us when they have been collected and are ready to be picked up from the front desk.  And do not say to your Librarian “Do you have that one book?  You know about the frog?  I think it had a green cover or maybe it was red.”  
  • Ask The Right Questions – The above is the wrong kind of question.  Asking the right questions is often key at getting good help.  Ask for help once you’ve attempted to find what you’re looking for yourself.  Ask for suggestions, but don’t expect a miracle.
  • Be Polite – Help your Librarian be the best he or she can be by starting off on the right foot.  Your Librarians are human being who have good days and bad days.  Don’t expect them to know everything or be able to keep everyone happy – they have to juggle their own bosses, schedules, budgets and patrons desires and they can’t do it all!  Remember that;postID=1391362974390202943these are people with Masters Degrees who, on average, don’t make a lot of money – they’ve gotten that degree and taken that job out of a love of books and learning and deserve respect.  And we all know just how much a sincere thank you or a little extra patience can turn a day around!

Linking Up with Frugally Sustainable (Wednesday), Your Green Resource (Thursday)and Little House in the Suburbs (Friday)!

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August is a Strange One

Pardon my absence, but August is a strange one.  August seems to be the month that challenges me the most.  I feel rushed and scatterbrained all month; I still have the twinges of my pregnancy woes that come back to haunt me (August of my pregnancy was one of the most stressful times of my life which only worsened my ante-partum depression – written about HERE).

My baby boy has turn 18 months old, and while I still love motherhood with all my heart and love the ways he’s learning independence (he can walk down three stairs unassisted, can help prepare pizza and tacos and his favorite words are now Cow and No) the beginning of the toddler phase is proving a challenge.  There have been moments where I’m not the mother I want to be, mainly because we’re in the limbo of wanting to communicate and not being able to.  This will pass and I will learn how to better control my own feelings when things start spiraling down that path.  It feels good just to write that. 

And I can still say while experiencing all the ups and downs I look forward to the day we really start planning for our next child – I know he (maybe she) is there, just a little out of my grasp right.  There are the little, “baby things” that we come across and put behind us that make me pray that this is not the only time I get to experience little clothes, little shoes, little hands needing to be held just so and cuddles in your arms that fit so securely.


But, enough of the mopey stuff.  August is a strange one and apparently so I am.  While discussing family life with a coworker I had quite the reaction when I assert my opinion that I will do all within my power to keep my families schedules and lives from conflicting with things like family dinners and healthy quiet time.   My coworker (who I usually see eye to eye with and who is the mother of two college students and a high schooler) was quick to tell me how this is “against the norm” these days and that I need to be ready to be “different” if this was what I was going to try to do (not to mention it would be darn well impossible).

I ended the conversation around that point the best I could, but wanted to point out that we’re already quite different.  We live on lower incomes and tight budgets.  We believe that good food costs good money.  We believe in empty closet space.  We haven’t hooked up our TV to even get the local channels yet and are often the only family on the block out in our yard.  We read books that are still printed on paper and few to none of my sons toys run on batteries.  Are we prepared to be “different”?  Yes, I think we are.

While I won’t deny my children the chance to explore things that interest them or delve into activities at which they excel I still believe that they don’t need to do everything, nor do their parents, just like I don’t believe they need every toy or every new outfit.  I don’t want to be a chauffeur for their entire lives and I want to give them ample time to unwind and be a kid (or a teenage).

I hope my children experience different sports, clubs and activities (and I will encourage more activities as the child ages and is in more control over their schedule); however, that doesn’t mean that their schedules need to be packed from the age of 3 to do so.

So I guess I am different, quite the strange one after all.

Just call me August.

Just Around The Corner

It’s almost here, I can feel it:  Fall, my favorite time of year.  I live for cool temperature that call out for you to bundle up at home with a little Prairie Home Companion, hand knit socks and something warm to drink.  The introvert in me loves the days when no one blames you for staying home curled up under a blanket because everyone else is doing the exact same thing.  I’ve been burning through books recently (anyone who tells you that you can’t have kid, do crafts, cook and read books point them my way).  Radical Homemakers, Little Britches and The Art of the Commonplace were all amazing reads and I highly recommend each one.  We’ve been listening to book Three and Four of the Dresden files at night while the hubs and I play cards (it’s our version of date night)

 {I think this “tea mix” in a cup of green tea with milk is going to be my go-to drink of the season}

Of course in all reality Iowa could still give us a month and a half of 90 and 100 degree weather, it’s fickle like that, but I’m putting my faith in the Farmer’s Almanac this year and believing in cool temperatures and an early winter (no one wants an early, long winter here except that desperately need the moisture in our fields).

My husband now believes I have special powers to call the rain seeing as we’ve had much need rain every weekend since I completed a novena for rain on the 28th of July.  I just smile and am enjoying the reminder of my beloved Oregon weather, oh how I was made for those cool, dreary days.

Of course it’s that time of year to start planning the handmades – this years recipients will be the hubs, the kiddo and two of the kiddo’s cousins (one of whom is my adorable Godson).  Ben needs a new pair of THESE (the ones I made in 2009 have been so loved that edges around the worn out holes are felted), Henry will be getting a new SWEATER (if I can size it up) or maybe THIS and the three boys (all born almost exactly three years apart!) will be getting some fun winter hats, probably a version of THESE.

Of course work goes on.  I’m nearing completion of the most complex part of the pattern – the rocks behind the chairs are made up of short bursts of multiple colors so it’s slow going.

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